I have friends of all different Orientations . Nobody should be made to feel different about there Orientation weather they are hetrosexual,bi-sexual or homosexual. We are all the same . If you are not sure of your sexuality you have plenty of time to discover . Whatever sexuality you are your friends should always stand by you i did when my friend came out as bi-sexual she is one of my good friends and is made to feel no different .

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woooooooooo go you! anyones sexuality has no effect on how nice they are!!
girls can b mates with boys visa versa
tran sexual or bi is sitill fine
ppl are nice get to know them

Im new to this and was wondering if you could help i think that my boyfriend might be gay but he wont admit it i have seen him kissing another man but he said it was a dare! what should i do?

Well all you have to do is sit down and talk to him about it. You have to let your feelings out in the open. It has to be said that men are not very good at talking but he should understand why you are asking him. Remember that there are always your friends who you can ask about it. Does that help or do you want me to go into more detail?

Thankyou vey much for taking the time to reply to me.
I will try and talk to him about it but as you say men arent great at letting you know about their feelings and he's no exeption.
The only thing is I just don't now where to start, how do you ask someone you love a question like that? What if he feels I don't trust him or even worse that i've got it compleatly wrong and we break up?
thanks for making time for me xx

Well its what I do making time for people but the problem you face is confronting him. Simply tell him the truth. Its all you can say as thats all you want to know. The truth. Personally, I wouldnt just come out with it. This may be a bit of a shock to him. I would sit him down so that you are both alone and he is lesterning. I understand that you dont want to lose him but think of it in his shoes. If he is gay, how is he going to tell you. What if he isnt and it was a dare. How is he going to tell you.

If you sit down with him and talk about how you feel, he should understand.

Thanks for your advice it is much apreciated. I will let you know how things work out.

Thanks xx

Its quite alright. If you need more help, please create a new thread in the approtpiate Forum. Thanks.